Questions, Always Questions

[disbelief11]

I am constantly amazed at the number of people who can't answer a simple, direct question. People, listen up: I asked you something specific because I need the information in order to help you or plan a time to meet you or to figure out how long I need to block out in my schedule for you, etc.

So, when the conversation goes like this -


Me: "Are you looking for (A) or (B)?"

Person: "Blah blah blah...yadayadayada (nothing even tangentially related to either A or B)"


- I get frustrated.


Darling Flist, do you find this happening to you? Or, perhaps better, do you know why people do this or how to get them to actually, y'know, answer the question?


Maybe I ask too many questions instead of just bossing the other person around. That's it, I should just impose my will upon all others who cross my path. No questions asked.

Comments

[disbelief11.livejournal.com]

Let's say I ask you "Did you want to go to dinner only, or do dinner and a movie?"

What would your answer be?

[mz-bstone.livejournal.com]

Depends.

I'd start talking about my work load, and my other stuff, and my health, and do I have other people I should be thinking about, and whatever in my brain might affect my time and ability to watch the film.

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[disbelief11.livejournal.com]

I don't usually have a problem with that kind of answer - as long as I can tell that that kind of reasoning process has at least some small bearing on my question.

I've decided that sometimes people skip a few steps of the conversation without realizing it and then pick it back up, which leaves me wondering what the hell happened. This is especially prevalent in email conversations...perhaps I didn't get the emails in between or the person never actually sent them but is sure he or she did.

Language and communication can certainly be interesting, hey?